Motivation fades.
Hacks break.Boring work compounds.
Self-improvement that survives contact with real life — systems instead of sprints, sources instead of vibes, honest testing instead of promises. A library, not a feed.

I know what to do. I don’t do it.
You are not lazy, and you knew that before you got here. What actually happens is smaller and stranger: the task makes you feel something you would rather not feel, and your brain takes the nearest exit — a tab, a snack, a suddenly tidy desk. Seen that way, the moves that help are unglamorous ones. Shrink the first step until it is almost embarrassing. Start before you feel ready, because the feeling arrives afterwards or not at all.

I open my phone to check one thing and lose forty minutes.
Nobody stole your concentration. It goes in places you can name — notifications, switching between tasks, short sleep, and the cost of climbing back into something after an interruption. What this section does is check how large each of those really is, which sometimes means telling you that the study behind a frightening headline found almost nothing.

My habits die in week two.
Week two is not bad luck. Four different failures all get called “I lost the habit”: there was never a reliable trigger, the thing itself was quietly unpleasant, it cost more effort than you had that week, or your surroundings changed and took the cue away with them. They need opposite responses, so the first job is working out which one is yours.

Everyone repeats this advice. Is it true?
Self-improvement has piled up a lot of confident claims that nobody went back to check. Each piece here takes one claim, finds the first place it was ever said, and reports what that source actually contains — sometimes a real study with results far smaller than advertised, sometimes a single sentence in a paperback.

I sleep fine and I’m still exhausted.
Tired, sleepy and burned out feel almost identical from the inside and need completely different things — an early night, a lighter week, or a change of circumstances. That is why a long weekend fixes one of them and does nothing at all for the other two. Most of what follows is about telling them apart.

I read the famous book. Nothing changed.
Each book is read end to end and put through the same three questions: what does it actually claim, what evidence did the author have, and does that evidence still stand after the last decade of replication attempts. Every title then gets one of three labels — read it, read our notes instead, or skip it — with the reasoning underneath.
- Losing My Virginity — Richard Branson
- Rework — Jason Fried & David Heinemeier Hansson
- How to Win Friends and Influence People — Dale Carnegie
- NewSoaring with Eagles by Bill Newman
- 38 read
- 6 worth it
- 17 notes only
- 15 skip
Latest entries on the site
The feed sits at the bottom on purpose. A library is organised by subject, not by date — but here are the thirty most recent pieces, newest first.
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Why Is My Attention Span So Short All of a Sudden?
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The Goldfish Myth: Your Attention Span Is Not 8 Seconds
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How Long Does It Take to Get Your Attention Back?
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Are Learning Styles Real? What the Evidence Actually Says
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Does Habit Stacking Actually Work?
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Does the Pomodoro Technique Actually Work?
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Why We Really Procrastinate: The Neurobiology of Avoidance and a Step-by-Step Action Protocol
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Anatomy of a Psychological Trap: How Nolan’s ‘The Odyssey’ Broke Our Minds
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The New Psychology of Self-Improvement
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Your Brain Never Deletes a Bad Habit