Self-Help Books, Reviewed Honestly

39 books, read with one question: what still holds up? Not what inspires — what survives contact with the evidence published after the book came out.

Read it the book does the work · Notes a few ideas, buried in padding · Skip misleading or superseded — the review says why. Every book links out, including the ones we tell you to skip.

SkipRich Dad Poor DadRobert Kiyosaki · 1997SkipWhy We SleepMatthew Walker · 2017NotesGetting Things DoneDavid Allen · 2001SkipThe 8th HabitStephen Covey · 2004NotesFlowMihaly Csikszentmihalyi · 1990NotesHow to Win Friends and Influence PeopleDale Carnegie · 1936NotesThe Willpower InstinctKelly McGonigal · 2011NotesTribesSeth Godin · 2008Read itReworkJason Fried & David Heinemeier Hansson · 2010Read itSolving the Procrastination PuzzleTimothy Pychyl · 2013NotesAtomic HabitsJames Clear · 2018SkipSoaring with EaglesBill Newman · 1994SkipMaking the Brain Body ConnectionSharon Promislow · 1999Read itLosing My VirginityRichard Branson · 1998NotesPersonal Development for Smart PeopleSteve Pavlina · 2008NotesMatsushita's Principles of SuccessKonosuke MatsushitaNotesThe Power of FocusJack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen & Les Hewitt · 2000SkipMaking TimeSteve Taylor · 2007SkipScrew It, Let's Do ItRichard Branson · 2006NotesThe Personal Efficiency ProgramKerry Gleeson · 1994NotesGet Out of Your Own Way at WorkMark Goulston · 2005NotesFive Minds for the FutureHoward Gardner · 2006SkipThe Rules of WealthRichard Templar · 2006NotesNotes from a FriendTony Robbins · 1995NotesCatching the Big FishDavid Lynch · 2006SkipThe Rules of LifeRichard Templar · 2006SkipToxic PeopleLillian Glass · 1995NotesManagingHenry Mintzberg · 2009SkipEveryone Communicates, Few ConnectJohn C. Maxwell · 2010NotesHow to Read a BookMortimer Adler · 1940NotesYour Brain at WorkDavid Rock · 2009NotesHappierTal Ben-Shahar · 2007NotesThe Now HabitNeil Fiore · 1988SkipBrain MakerDavid Perlmutter · 2015NotesJust ListenMark Goulston · 2009NotesThe Introvert AdvantageMarti Olsen Laney · 2002NotesTotal ImmersionTerry Laughlin · 1996SkipSecrets of the Millionaire MindT. Harv Eker · 2005Read itThe Dhammapada